Tanisha Hopson

beautiful-living-room-ideas-4 = wholeness starts at home

When I was growing up, if someone was acting out foolishly in the streets– the more “seasoned women” in my community would say, “Hhhhmm, that person has no home training”… The term “home training” implies that a person has manners, respect for others and displays acceptable social etiquette. However, I would go a little further and say that if a person is acting out of character or in a foolish manner, he or she might not have gotten what he/she needs at home and could be broken in spirit.

My grandmother (like many wise old school grandmothers) taught me that home is where the heart is. She was always sure to share that your home should always be a place of healing, restoration, nurturing, and rest for your soul. It should be clean, well swept, pleasant smelling and in order – much like your spirit. Home should be the place where God can freely speak to your heart in preparation for whatever the day has in store for you. If you are constantly getting the proper spiritual vitamins from home, your soul will reflect a confident, whole individual who will have a Word from the Lord and smile to brighten someone’s day.

Here is a special Motivational Monday nugget from Isaiah 26:3: “You will guard him and keep him in perfect and constant peace whose mind [both its inclination and its character] is stayed on You, because he commits himself to You, leans on You, and hopes confidently in You.”

If we keep our priorities straight spiritually, mentally and physically – everything else cooperates with us. Let’s get back to the basics of putting first things first in our relationship with God, family and home. Remove the clutter of unnecessary material things, unresolved relationships and unforgiveness. If the world is going to be a better place, it starts with you. As you head out to take on the world today – remember that wholeness starts at home. You have the power to make it an awesome place!

My wholeness confession for today: “I have peace, power, love and a calm and well-balanced mind because I trust God. I don’t worry about anything, instead, I pray about everything and God blesses me by giving me His peace. I am well equipped to handle any problem that comes my way, because God is with me and my soul is in perfect peace.”

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Successful People Walk in Wisdom!

By Tanisha Hopson

Every move you make, every step you take, whether big or small, is significant. As the Editor of a thriving magazine, I am often in a position to make important decisions quickly in a short period of time. Most of the decisions that I need to make are pretty obvious…However, when I recently felt like I didn’t know what to do in one instance (because of a funny feeling I was having); I began to inquire of the Lord concerning the matter. At first, I heard absolutely nothing at all from God. So, I decided to wait on Him before making my decision. Finally, by the next morning, the Holy Spirit impressed upon my heart to simply “use wisdom”.

Proverbs 4: 10- 14 says, “Listen, my son, accept what I say, and the years of your life will be many. I instruct you in the way of wisdom and lead you along straight paths. When you walk, your steps will not be hampered; when you run, you will not stumble. Hold on to instruction, do not let it go; guard it well, for it is your life.”

We must look at things circumspectly before making choices, because evil is not often displayed in plain sight. It is often hidden in the details that we are not privy to seeing immediately. This is the world we are living in. Yet God, in His infinite wisdom gives us opportunities to seek Him and walk in victory! He gave us the opportunity to accept Jesus Christ as the Lord of our lives, the Holy Spirit to teach us in all things, discernment to let us know when something isn’t quite right, and a brain.

After applying wisdom to my situation and getting the much needed peace in my heart; the choice that I made kept me from danger, helped me to maximize on my time, and worked out wonderfully for every person involved.

I encourage you today to walk circumspectly in all that you do and keep God’s Word and prayer at the epicenter of your world. And, always remember, successful people walk in wisdom!

Reflection Scripture:
Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is. And do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit, addressing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody to the Lord with your heart, giving thanks always and for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ. ~ Ephesians 5: 15-21

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By Tanisha Hopson

“God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference”. ~ Reinhold Niebuhr

Some people are easy to love; while others are just tolerable. Some people really do talk too much without thinking; while others stay quiet and use wisdom before speaking. Some people have earned the reputation of being the life of any party; while others are quiet by nature and enjoy spending time by themselves. Some are dependable; while others are extremely unreliable. Some people are gossip bearers; while others try their best to mind their own business.

Regardless of the case, whether we like it or not; we are all called to love our neighbors as ourselves. The sooner we all learn to accept people for who they are and where they are – we will see major improvements in our lives and relationships.

When we have no power to change situations, we must choose to “accept” and pray for improvements regarding circumstances. One nugget that could help you out tremendously today is: “You cannot change anyone but yourself, so stop tripping and enjoy the journey.” You can only change your perspective, your way of thinking, and what you will or will not do. End of story. So, take the pressure off yourself, other people and put God back in charge!

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By: Hasani Pettiford

The ninth habit of successful people is the ability to focus. Don King said, “Great wealth calls for concentration, singleness of purpose, one unwavering aim. To drift from day to day is easy. No skill is required, no effort or pain. On the other hand, to set goals for a day or a week or a month, and to obtain those objectives, is never easy. All wealthy men and women are noted for their power of concentration, which makes them oblivious to trial pursuits.”

In order to focus on something there must be a target. A target is simply a desired goal that someone aims for. The object of the game of darts is to aim for the bull’s eye. Whoever lands their dart closest to the target, wins. The same principle is applied in the game of life. All successful people have specific targets called goals that they aim for. In order to hit the bull’s eye focus is required.

When you choose to be focused, you’ll experience a sense of achievement and increased success. Focus builds momentum for faster results, leaving you more productive and effective.

The bible warns of the dangers of being unfocused. James 1:8 says, “A double minded man is unstable in all of his ways.” Unsuccessful people are often guilty of being double, triple and even quadruple minded which pulls them in many directions, leaving them stagnate. When our mind is focused we do not scatter our energy on unnecessary activities. Unfortunately, many people loose their concentration too early in the game. Whether it’s with diets, New Year’s resolutions, fitness programs or a renewed commitment to their jobs. They begin with great intentions, ride it for a while, and then start to slide. Once the newness wears off, focus starts to wear off as well.

Countless others lose focus due to over-commitment. T oo many things at once often leave people feeling scattered which keeps them from producing desirable results. Overloaded people fail. Successful people release themselves from many obligations in order to maintain their focus. They know how to keep the main thing the main thing.

Determine what specific goal you want to achieve. Then dedicate yourself to its attainment with an unswerving singleness of purpose. Most people believe in having a back up plan just in case their plans don’t work out. They often said ‘Don’t put all your eggs in one basket.’ That’s a loser’s strategy. They are unconsciously anticipating failure. Winners think differently. Andrew Carnegie said, “Put all your eggs in one basket and watch the basket.”

When you decide to put all your eggs in one basket, or destroy all possible means of retreat and escape, the possibilities of success increase dramatically. If you concentrate on one purpose you will succeed

Commit yourself to work single-mindedly on one task, the most important task, and stay with it until it is 100% complete. Persevere without distraction. Push yourself to stay on the job until it is done. Learn to master the habit of successful people: focus.

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By: Tanisha Hopson

For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light and find out what pleases the Lord.  Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them.  It is shameful even to mention what the disobedient do in secret.  But everything exposed by the light becomes visible—and everything that is illuminated becomes a light. ~ Ephesians 5: 8 – 13


From time to time, I believe we have all been guilty of wanting what we want, when we want it. However, I have found that there are things going on behind the scenes in situations that we are completely unaware of; but God knows.  God knows best and He knows exactly how to get you where He wants you, in His perfect will and timing. 

Divine purpose is produced through consistently staying in God’s will through surrendering your will, in exchange for His will for your life.  This act builds character, cultivates endurance, and increases your confidence in being led by God.

You might not be able see it now, but God’s perfect will is way better than what you can imagine for yourself.

In my lifetime, there have been numerous occasions when I thanked God that I didn’t make a move out of season, as a result of listening to the Holy Spirit’s leading to either slow down or stop. However, on the contrary, I have also made some choices that ended up causing me to wait longer for my blessing because of my own disobedience.

1 Samuel 15: 22 says,
Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to hearken than the fat of rams.

Likewise, Psalm 14:12 says,
There is a way that seems right to a man, but in the end it leads to death.

The other side of obedience is filled with abundant life, joy, peace of mind, provision, and protection from the wiles of the enemy.  Today, I want to strongly encourage you to obey God and start surrendering your whole life to Christ.

                                                                       Choose today who you will serve…

Today’s Prayer:

Heavenly Father, I thank you for one more day. Father God, today I surrender my whole life to you. I choose to serve you this day. I renounce the sin and wrong thinking of my past and I welcome you into my heart, my habits, and my way of thinking. I give you full permission to guide, lead, and shape my life into the original masterpiece that you have especially purposed for me. I promise to study your Word daily and to be led by the Holy Spirit. Today, I exchange my will for your will and promise to obey your Word and to walk in your ways. Thank you Lord, for another chance to get it right today. I love You and adore You. In Jesus’ name, I pray. Amen.

Your Prayer Life, Your Purpose & You!

By Tanisha Hopson

When I first discovered that George Washington Carver was a man of God, I was immediately intrigued by his life story! One of the things that impressed me the most is that he had an authentic prayer life.

Carver routinely got up at 4 AM, walked through the woods, and asked God to reveal the mysteries of nature. He often prayed, Job 12:7-8: Ask the animals, and they will teach you, or the birds of the air, and they will teach you;or speak to the earth, and it will teach you. Carver literally asked God to reveal the mysteries of nature. And God did.

In Carver’s own words:
I said, “Lord, why did you make the universe?”
The Lord replied, “Ask for something more in proportion to that little mind of yours.”
“Then why did you make the earth, Lord?” I asked.
“Your little mind still wants to know far too much,” replied God.
“Why did you make man, Lord?” I asked.
“Far too much. Far too much. Ask again,” replied God.
“Explain to me why you made plants, Lord,” I asked.
“Your little mind still wants to know far too much.”
So I meekly asked, “Lord, why did you make the peanut?”

And the Lord said, “For the modest proportions of your mind, I will grant you the mystery of the peanut. Take it inside your laboratory and separate it into water, fats, oils, gums, resins, sugars, starches and amino acids. Then recombine these under my three laws of compatibility, temperature and pressure. Then you will know why I made the peanut.”

George Washington Carver
One of the 20th century’s greatest scientists, George Washington Carver’s influence is still being felt today. Rising from slavery to become one of the world’s most respected and honored men, he devoted his life to understanding nature and the many uses for the simplest of plant life. He is best known for developing crop-rotation methods for conserving nutrients in soil and discovering hundreds of new uses for crops such as the peanut.

Our Reflection Question of the Day:
How could your life be different if you dared to pray like George Washington Carver?
Today, it is my hope that you will be inspired to open your heart to God’s plan and purpose for your life. Put away the chitter – chatter of convenient distractions, get into your secret place with the Lord and listen intently for God’s voice regarding the next steps for your life. Be bold, be intentional in prayer and watch God move mightily in your life.

Make it an awesome Sunday & be sure to love one another!




Falling In Love With Your Divine Purpose

By Tanisha Hopson


“Alexander Graham Bell believed that sound could be converted into electrical impulses and transmitted by wire. No one remembers those who thought he was crazy. We only remember the man who had the vision and created the telephone. If you do things in a halfway manner, you can always find a job somewhere. Yet if you do just enough to get by, you are going to remain simply an employee. However, if you decide that you’re going to find something that is truly yours, then you will fulfill your vision, and you will be remembered by others.”~ Dr. Miles Munroe

When a vision is from God, sometimes you might have a hard time sleeping. I discovered this reality recently. God placed an awesome dream in my heart that I could not shake, or stop thinking about. Oh my goodness! I tossed and turned in the midnight hour, anxious only to awake and get more of the vision down on paper before it escaped my memory.

Nevertheless, I got up that morning feeling super charged and excited to start my day and make a difference in the world. As I started to write down the plans that God placed in my heart, I was overwhelmed with joy as I got more and more excited! This my friend, is what I call “falling in love with your divine purpose”.. Although I have full knowledge that the vision from God is for an appointed time, I have allowed myself to still dream and wonder about this treasure that He has placed on the inside of me. In due season, it will come to pass…And, so will yours..


Today’s Reflection:

God has something that He wants each and everyone of us to do. He has purpose on His mind for all of us. However, it is our failure to ask Him, and to be ready to execute that keeps us in the same place year after year. Today is March 28th 2014, what is your next purpose driven move? I encourage you to fall back in love with your divine purpose!

Ephesians 3:20-21 

Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen